I had another toy party last week and it was a lot of fun.  It’s such a great job to come over and have a few hours of coffee and cookies and talk about something I am very passionate about. Never in a million years did I imagine myself as the lady that comes over to talk about sex, sexuality and pleasure.   I was raised with the advice that there are a few topics that you don’t discuss in polite company; Politics, sex, religion or money.

For years I would never discuss these things because it wasn’t polite and I was determined to be a well mannered woman.  I am realizing there are an awful lot of well mannered women in the world and as a result of our good manners, there are an awful lot of misinformation and questions floating around.  Here are the assumptions that I got from just…