5 Signs God Is Preparing You For a Relationship

First of all, you can either be looking for signs god is preparing you for a relationship, or the universe, or the higher power, or just whatever fits the context of your belief, but we all know we can relate to this “power” in a similar manner, no matter what your religious beliefs are.

You are here to check if you are in alignment with yourself in meeting your destined soulmate. Am I on the right track? Am I doing life right?

So, what are these signs that you spiritually feel you are navigating the muddy dating scene to connect deeply with yourself and meet the right person?

(Note: if you have not been experiencing any of these signs yet, it does not mean that you are not on the right path or that you will never be. You may be experiencing other signs to show that you are still on the right path and therefore tuning in to your intuition is the best way to ask yourself if you are on the right path and answer your own question.)

Red flags and green flags in relationships are easy to identify but those yellow flags are the most confusing ones. I use these affirmation cards to help me stay grounded when dating. First, love yourself enough and you’ll gain a sense of clarity on who you should ditch when dating.

My Experience

In all honesty, I do not know if I will be meeting the right person soon or if it is going to take more time.

However, I do know that when I have experienced serenity and calmness in embracing my singlehood (one of the pros of being single) without having the pressure to date relentlessly and cling to dates and situationships that are not going anywhere substantial, I know that I am headed towards the right direction and I will be fine whatever phase of life that I am at in the future.

It has definitely taken me a lot of time, precisely two years from the time I started my therapy in order to fully let go of the idea of always putting in effort and dating people in order to find someone. Being 35 and single, I have stopped thinking how to stop wanting a relationship and find a companion.

This is especially true for all those single ladies living alone who have very little emotional support to turn to, as implementing whatever we learn from therapy sessions can be challenging due to our own circumstances.

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5 Signs God Is Preparing You For a Relationship 

I meditate in the morning as soon as I get up by dissolving a handful of meditation rock salt under the running tap water as I say my affirmations aloud, and these melting waxes help to create a nice environment. I also put on nice meditative music to help me get into a calm state of mind.

1. You Are Not Interested In Mere Attention From People

One of the most important signs God is preparing you for a relationship is the fact that you are not interested in just seeking superficial attention from people who are not good for your soul. 

This is very important to understand because once you have discarded the need to be seen as important from other people’s perspective, you actually begin to trust the higher power that you deserve someone better and you can let go of the breadcrumbs that you have in your life although you actually want attention and affection from people but not from people who are not genuine.

As human beings, it is normal to crave connection as we are social creatures. If you are a single woman living alone, you might be deprived of quality connection and intimacy with people, which would tempt you to seek attention even if it is for a fleeting moment of time.

But if you can see that you are no longer interested in people and connections that seem to be good for you but are not serving you in the long run, it is a sign that you have matured and understood that you need to fill your cup first before expecting others to give you the attention that you need.

2. You Can Enjoy Alone Time

One of the struggles of single people is the ability to enjoy time alone. This is very hard to do if you have been living alone for a long time and your situation has not been improving even after you have thrown yourself out into the dating arena for quite a bit right now. 

One of the detrimental patterns of dating in order to expedite the process of finding the right person is to go on dates back to back thinking that they are putting in more effort and also thinking that they are actually not alone. 

It is important to actually go on multiple dates and multi-dating is a trend right now whereby it allows you to not get attached to one person and keep your judgments clear without being clouded by infatuation.

However, if dating is taking a lot of your time to the extent that you do not spend quality time alone discovering yourself and identifying if you have a good balance of personal and dating life, you will be struggling to embrace your time alone.

So, if you have been healthily enjoying your alone time without necessarily having the thoughts of merely putting yourself on dating apps for the sake of it, you actually have healed a lot of your traumas and you are emotionally stable in order to embrace the relationship that is meant for you. It is one of the signs god is preparing you for a relationship.

3. You Play Images Of Happy Relationships In Your Mind

If in the past you have been hurt by a lot of men on dating apps, and you have been extremely frustrated to the extent that you have grudges against them and you think that all men are the same and you have hyper independence trauma because you think you don’t need men, it is a sign that you are not prepared for the right person.

As a part of the manifestation process, you need to spend a lot of time having positive thoughts and therefore you should not be allowing your past to define your future. 

What I really love doing is to play images of happy relationships in my mind and to really envision what life would look like with somebody who is healthy and good for me. This involves starting the day flirtatiously with the love of my life and having a deep understanding with this person, coming home after work to this person, and a lot more other mental images that are giving me the ability to feel what it looks and feels like in order to be in a healthy relationship.

4. You Don’t Feel Desperate To Date

Another part of the signs God is preparing you for a relationship is that you don’t feel desperate to go on dates relentlessly.

You actually focus more on going on healthy dates and quality dates are more important for you. Therefore, you become picky and who you talk to and who has access to your energy because if your energy is affected, you will find it difficult to carry out your day-to-day activities.

You basically have faith that the higher power or God, actually will send you who you need at the right time and therefore you even have the courage to exit dating apps that are depleting your energy and remove yourself from situations and people that are not serving your higher purpose.

5. You Use Time Alone To Become Your Best Version

One part of being alone and trusting that God is sending the right person to you is to believe that you deserve to be the best version of yourself and not think that you will not have the opportunity to meet people of your standard just because you have leveled up. 

In the past, I used to be afraid of becoming the best version of myself because if let’s say I am independent and I have a lot of money, I used to think that this would scare people, especially men because of what I have achieved and I also have been really afraid of not having a quality pool of men to date from because successful women will have a smaller pool of men to date from.

However, stopping myself from becoming the best version of myself is doing myself a disservice and therefore I understood the importance of becoming who I am destined to become because regardless of my relationship status, I need to be who I am in order to live life for myself first.

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FAQs

How do you know when God wants you to be with someone?

If you have shared life values, it is very much a sign that you are meant to be with this person because having similar life values means that you actually have a lot of things similar to this person. You may not necessarily share the same hobbies, but if you are into healthy eating and your spouse is into gym and fitness, you both actually fall into the similar category of people who love taking care of themselves.

How do you know the will of God in a relationship?

Listening to your intuition can help you make the right decisions. A person can seem to be the right fit for you, say all the right things, and show all the signs in the world that he’s the right person for you, but if deep inside your heart, you feel that this person is faking things with you and it’s not going to work out, you should listen to your intuition and move accordingly because your intuition is very powerful and it is there for a reason.

How do you know God wants you to marry?

If you feel a strong spiritual connection with God or the higher power, you will suddenly have the tendency to feel that you should be settling down with someone you may even meet the right person at this point in time and you could have a change in mind if in the past not been considering marriage seriously.

How do you know if God doesn’t want you to be with someone?

When you tune into your intuition, you are actually tuning into the higher power. If you notice red flags or warning signs in the relationship, such as disrespect, abuse, or other unhealthy behaviors, it is a sign you should end things with them.